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MEMBERSHIP

You earn
your place
here.
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KinkyMinky membership isn't a subscription. It's a record of who you are in this community — built by showing up, meeting people, and earning trust over time. Start with a free account. Everything else follows naturally.

"Not gatekept.
Just earned."

THE PATH

Three levels.
One way through.

01

CREATE AN ACCOUNT

Sign up free. Unlocks event ticketing and the newsletter. Takes 30 seconds. This is your Open Membership — no commitment beyond curiosity.

02

COME TO A SOCIAL

Attend The Kinky Bar Social or The Arrangement. Meet the community. There

is no form to fill. No profile to submit. Just show up.

03

EARN YOUR VERIFICATION

Verification is granted by Minky — in person, over time, based on who you are in the room. Not purchased. Not applied for. Earned.

MEMBERSHIP TIERS

Where you start.

Where you go.

Membership grows with you. Start free.
The rest is built in person.

START HERE

Open 
Member

FREE · NO COMMITMENT

WHAT THIS UNLOCKS

  • Purchase tickets to all public KinkyMinky events — socials, workshops, parties
     

  • KinkyMinky newsletter — upcoming events, community news
     

  • The beginning of your path into this community

EARNED IN PERSON · NOT PURCHASED

Verified
Member

EARNED THROUGH ATTENDANCE

HOW TO BECOME VERIFIED

1

2

3

4

Create a free Open Member account
 

Attend The Kinky Bar Social or The Arrangement
 

Be present. Meet people. Show up as yourself.
 

Verification is granted by Minky — in person, in her own time.

There is no application. There is no shortcut. That is exactly why it means something.

WHAT VERIFICATION UNLOCKS

  • Access to events that require a verified profile to attend

  • Everything Open Membership includes

BY INVITATION · NEVER PUBLIC

Sanctum

INVITATION ONLY

  • This tier is not publicly described.

WHAT IS KNOWN

  • Closed-door events that do not appear on the public calendar
     

  • Everything Verified Membership includes
     

  • A personal invitation from Minky — the only path in

You'll know when you're ready.
And so will Minky.

AFTER YOU JOIN

Your first
steps in.

Signing up is the beginning, not the destination. The community is built in person — at socials, at workshops, over time. Here's where to start once your account is live.

Browse what's coming up

01

The events page shows everything scheduled — socials, workshops, parties. Your Open Member account lets you book any public event the moment you sign up.

Come to a social first

02

The Kinky Bar Social and The Arrangement are the best first events. Low pressure, open format, and the room where most lasting connections in this community begin.

Let the rest follow naturally

03

Verification, deeper access, and everything beyond it is built through presence. There is no shortcut — and that is precisely why it is worth something.

One standard.

Non-negotiable.

Every person in this community — Open Member, Verified, or Sanctum — operates under the same guidelines. Consent, respect, and discretion are not optional. Read them before your first event.

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